You have tons of money. Are you therefore happy? Or you have just a little, or not enough, does that make you unhappy. Or vice versa?
Well…. are you a victim? Or what kind of victim?
Let me tell you a little story:
This super MMA champion, who has never lost a fight, unarmed and dangerous, walks through a deserted street, in the middle of the night.
Suddenly she gets attacked by an inexperienced young man, a robber, about 13 years old, armed with a vicious knife, which he inexpertly wields….
Are you quite clear about how this is going to end?
I am not… and why?
The MMA champion is unarmed, yes, but very dangerous ONLY, if she applies her fighting skills.
Which is a conscious or unconscious decision. If she does not, apply her skills, she is just an unarmed human, more or less helpless against a knife.
So, no one is dangerous, happy, or sad just like that.
We all have learned certain skill sets, quite often unconsciously, which we apply in life. And we mistake them for states, which they are not, and typically don’t realize that we DO something, which leads to certain feelings, hormonal changes, and perceptions….
- we are not our breath, but we breathe
- we are not our thoughts, but we think
- we are not our feelings, but we feel
- we are not happy, but we act in a certain way and define this as „being happy“, we “do happy”
- we are not sad, but we act in a certain way and define this as „being sad“, we “do sad”
Ring any bells yet?
The challenge is, that most people think, that they don’t have a clue, about what they are doing. The great thing is, I can help you…
When are you going to do something about this?