Category Archives: self-love

ARE YOU AFRAID OF DYING?

No? Congratulations. You are more awake and aware than many other people.

But you are afraid? Why? Who taught you that? Think about it carefully, it’s worth it.

Who could be interested in the fact that you are afraid of it? Who benefits from it? Who does it give power to?

There are thousands of well-documented reports about death experiences. And if you read them, it becomes very difficult to justify the fear of death.

There is, of course, an enormous opposition to it on the church and scientific side.

Again the question: why should something not be valid that has been experienced by thousands of intelligent, educated people? That is clearly documented and confirmed by many different sources again and again?

The thesis seems to be that only what is approved by a white apron or laboratory coat may be valid.  According to the motto, what must not be, cannot be. Except for surgeons. Sometimes they are a bit more open, as they are precision engineers. But normally, the testimony of “laypeople” just doesn’t count.

Embarrassingly, there are also “experts” who have had such experiences and confirm them. But don’t worry, they don’t count in this case either.

Again the question: cui bono? Who does it serve? Consider how certain things would have gone the last two years if mankind were more awake. Had accepted death as part of our journey. Not associated fear with it. Looked forward to it positively.

What would change in certain sectors of the economy? Who would lose power?

How would we treat each other differently?

Think about it. Talk about it with others. Dare to think in new ways. It’s worth it.

And…. let me know what you have learned.

IN THE DIFFICULT MOMENTS, HOW DO YOU MANAGE?

Is this easy for you to exist in difficult moments?
Are you one of these hardcore beings, who practices tough love on herself?
Do you think, you learn only by criticism?

Too much love and softness make you weak?
To succeed in this world, you cannot show weakness?

Success has its price. Show no helplessness, or the others will gobble you up?

And if you really think so, are you happy with this?

I mean, really happy? Deep down, and when no one can hear or see you,
then I mean, are you really, really happy?

Are you convinced that this is the reason why you are on this planet?
Why you have sensitive beings around you?

If this is really the case, then good luck…. especially in the last moments, that you inhabit this body, and in the first moments after leaving it.

In the moments, when you remember, that you are an eternal soul, who incarnated on this admittedly difficult plant with one main goal.
And this one main goal was to love others and help them. Not tough love. But love.

Maybe then you will also remember this post and ask yourself: why didn’t I listen, to this tiny, shy voice inside myself, who told me, to read this well?

Well, it’s never too late, and I do mean that.

DO YOU WANT ME TO SELL YOU COACHING?

If you are looking for a sales coach, yes, of course.
I would need to catch you with some state-of-the-art hard-core-selling, lots of clever ruses, pushing your pain points, invitations, steps to follow, honey for bees, sales funnels, etc…🌹

Only… I AM NO A SALES COACH!! What? No! 😱

I AM A SOUL COACH, A MIND COACH

Imagine, I attack you in the street, kick you in the belly, knock you out with an uppercut. Afterward, I introduce myself: “Hi, nice to meet you, I am your coach for peaceful communication”. Not very congruent, isn’t it.

So what am I supposed to do? Soul you coaching? Mind you coaching? 👀

Exactly….. So what are we going to do? 🥸

What do you need to know, to acknowledge your need for coaching?
And, once you have done that, how do you decide, whom to choose? 👁

Exactly. You decide. You have the ability. Not only that, but you have intuition. You know how. Maybe not consciously, yet, but subconsciously, yes, of course, certainly.😇

For example, you could create an intention by saying to yourself:
“Within 3 days I am going to know with certainty, whether this is the right time for coaching and I will also precisely know what kind.”
Be open for signs, hints, even or especially from unexpected sources.
And see what happens. You will be astonished. In a very good way! 🤓

It’s a big step sometimes, I know. The risk of detecting “better sides” of yourself. Not being willing or able to go back to being the “old you”.
What are your friends going to say? Your partner? Your close ones? 🤔

Imagine becoming more “conscious”, to start “waking up”.
And possibly changing your circle of friends?

Or not wanting to tolerate certain behaviors around you anymore?
Being bored with certain topics, with a certain way of life. 🙈

No, I am not selling you my coaching. I am warning you. Coaching works.
Coaching can be life-changing. Irreversibly. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

So think well before deciding. Once you are clear and courageous enough, go for it. 🤩 🤩 🤩

HOW MUCH DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF?

🤔 And careful, there are different ways of doing that. One way is very seductive and ends badly. Badly? Yes, it does.🙈

When you think you are the best, and all the others are scum, for example. You know you are great but all the others are not. 😱
That’s what I mean. This does not end well. How do I know that?
In this day and age we know a lot of what happens, in the end.. ask me if you want to know more… 👀

So the better way is to treat oneself with compassion. Also, the others of course, but let’s start with yourself.

Which proves to be quite difficult, sometimes.
It means, that whatever you do, you forgive yourself. From your heart. Completely. And, of course, try to do a lot better next time. ❤️

So, compassion, patience, and being able to act from your heart.

How about doing a little test right now?

Remember something you did, which you consider awful. Got something? 🤔

Ok. So now, see this you, who did that, over there, in front of you, in your mind’s eye. And go over there, take that part of yourself in your arms and forgive. Completely. From your heart, and accept any emotion that comes up. ❤️🙏❤️

Sounds strange? Good. Be tough, be a grown-up, and… just do it. Repeat daily. Be surprised at how much better you are going to feel in a few weeks. 😇 🥰

Let me know what happens, please!