Category Archives: about manipulation

DO YOU WANT ME TO SELL YOU COACHING?

If you are looking for a sales coach, yes, of course.
I would need to catch you with some state-of-the-art hard-core-selling, lots of clever ruses, pushing your pain points, invitations, steps to follow, honey for bees, sales funnels, etc…🌹

Only… I AM NO A SALES COACH!! What? No! 😱

I AM A SOUL COACH, A MIND COACH

Imagine, I attack you in the street, kick you in the belly, knock you out with an uppercut. Afterward, I introduce myself: “Hi, nice to meet you, I am your coach for peaceful communication”. Not very congruent, isn’t it.

So what am I supposed to do? Soul you coaching? Mind you coaching? 👀

Exactly….. So what are we going to do? 🥸

What do you need to know, to acknowledge your need for coaching?
And, once you have done that, how do you decide, whom to choose? 👁

Exactly. You decide. You have the ability. Not only that, but you have intuition. You know how. Maybe not consciously, yet, but subconsciously, yes, of course, certainly.😇

For example, you could create an intention by saying to yourself:
“Within 3 days I am going to know with certainty, whether this is the right time for coaching and I will also precisely know what kind.”
Be open for signs, hints, even or especially from unexpected sources.
And see what happens. You will be astonished. In a very good way! 🤓

It’s a big step sometimes, I know. The risk of detecting “better sides” of yourself. Not being willing or able to go back to being the “old you”.
What are your friends going to say? Your partner? Your close ones? 🤔

Imagine becoming more “conscious”, to start “waking up”.
And possibly changing your circle of friends?

Or not wanting to tolerate certain behaviors around you anymore?
Being bored with certain topics, with a certain way of life. 🙈

No, I am not selling you my coaching. I am warning you. Coaching works.
Coaching can be life-changing. Irreversibly. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

So think well before deciding. Once you are clear and courageous enough, go for it. 🤩 🤩 🤩

DO PEOPLE MANIPULATE YOU WITH LANGUAGE?

And is that always for your own good?

Today I want to tell you about complex equivalents.
I give you a well-known example: “time is money”.

If you think about this carefully and picture both terms, you realize, that it’s simply not true.

Time is time, money is money. You can put them in a relationship if you want to. But they are NOT equal.

So what do others want, when they tell you this and similar familiar things? What are their intentions?

● What mood do they want to put you in?
● What do they want you to think?
● How do they want you to act?
● And, maybe more important, what do they want you Not to
think, Not to realize, NOT to do?
● (Why)Do they want you to have Tunnel vision?
● What behaviour do they want to manipulate you into?

THINK about that! It’s a very simple and seductive way to exploit others. We fall for it quite easily, because it’s a habit, part of our daily unconscious thinking and acting.

So START being awake, START being present, START being conscious! Today. Here. Now.

As soon as someone tells you that “a = b”, for example,
this and that is your enemy, STOP! THINK!

Picture the two concepts.

  • Is this true?
  • Are the two pictures identical?
  • And if yes, have they already been identical, before
    others started you telling that they are?
  • What would you lose, by not playing along?
  • What could you gain, by being consciously aware of the differences, the individual properties?

If this resonates with you, you might also consider stopping doing this to other people… Help them to get used to not being manipulated so easily.

Is this useful for you? Does this make you think?
Please let me know about your reactions to this train of thought!