Category Archives: about coaching

WHY ARE YOU WHO YOU ARE?

A stupid question isn’t it… Genetics and biography. Ok?

Bullsh………

Just for fun’s sake, consider yourself the result of very, very clever brainwashing… Yes.

Just think differently for a few moments.

How could this have happened?

A hint. I used to give little workshops about learning techniques for adults.
I always asked till when it was easy for them to learn, and when it became difficult. 

Think about that for a moment…… exactly, I guess, if you remember, you’ll give the same answer. 
Learning was easy until you started school.

When you just consider this simple fact, you might arrive at the following conclusion: but this is completely absurd!!And, yes, it is, indeed.
A human brain is a learning machine. To stop that, one has to do something awfully wrong.

Now, if you did not have enlightened, awakened, conscious parents, in a spiritual sense I mean, they surely did their best. They wanted to allow you to survive and maybe thrive, and maybe even be super successful in our society.

Possibly they succeeded.

I just have a tiny question: at what price? At what terrible price? Especially, if you climbed the corporate ladder, perhaps even broke through a glass ceiling, congratulations by the way, what price did you have to pay.

And, if you are just shaking your head now, and thank you for reading this far at least, you might belong to the 80% who have no conscious awareness about that.

Do you know the story about the work elephants in Thailand? When they are very young, they are chained to a mighty post anchored in the ground. Of course, they try to escape, try to lift the post with their trunk. But, the trunk is too strong, their trunk too weak.
So, after a certain time, they give up. Maybe they try again, but… the same story.

Now after a few years, it doesn’t matter at all, that they could rip out the post easily. They have given up. But have they? If you could ask them, they would say, no of course not, they just are intelligent and HAVE LEARNED, that it is impossible, that they are too weak.

It’s called depending on whom you ask, learning, conditioning, brainwashing, survival, necessity, adapting…… I think you do understand what I am saying there.

And now, I am going to test you…. I am going to repeat something from above:

Now, if you did not have enlightened, awakened, conscious parents, in a spiritual sense I mean, certainly they did their best. They wanted to allow you to survive and maybe thrive, and maybe even be super successful in our society.

Possibly they succeeded.

I just have a tiny question: at what price?

So, my question to you:
are you aware that you may have paid a terrible price?

And here is some good news. You, as we all, were trained. It’s also called a skill set.

That means who you „are“, for the most part, is an expression of habits. Of behavior, which was taught to you with whatever means „necessary“.

But. It’s only behavior. And behavior can be changed. Yep. It can. You may have to work for it, but it’s possible. If you want.

And……… I am here to help you.

DO YOU WANT ME TO SELL YOU COACHING?

If you are looking for a sales coach, yes, of course.
I would need to catch you with some state-of-the-art hard-core-selling, lots of clever ruses, pushing your pain points, invitations, steps to follow, honey for bees, sales funnels, etc…🌹

Only… I AM NO A SALES COACH!! What? No! 😱

I AM A SOUL COACH, A MIND COACH

Imagine, I attack you in the street, kick you in the belly, knock you out with an uppercut. Afterward, I introduce myself: “Hi, nice to meet you, I am your coach for peaceful communication”. Not very congruent, isn’t it.

So what am I supposed to do? Soul you coaching? Mind you coaching? 👀

Exactly….. So what are we going to do? 🥸

What do you need to know, to acknowledge your need for coaching?
And, once you have done that, how do you decide, whom to choose? 👁

Exactly. You decide. You have the ability. Not only that, but you have intuition. You know how. Maybe not consciously, yet, but subconsciously, yes, of course, certainly.😇

For example, you could create an intention by saying to yourself:
“Within 3 days I am going to know with certainty, whether this is the right time for coaching and I will also precisely know what kind.”
Be open for signs, hints, even or especially from unexpected sources.
And see what happens. You will be astonished. In a very good way! 🤓

It’s a big step sometimes, I know. The risk of detecting “better sides” of yourself. Not being willing or able to go back to being the “old you”.
What are your friends going to say? Your partner? Your close ones? 🤔

Imagine becoming more “conscious”, to start “waking up”.
And possibly changing your circle of friends?

Or not wanting to tolerate certain behaviors around you anymore?
Being bored with certain topics, with a certain way of life. 🙈

No, I am not selling you my coaching. I am warning you. Coaching works.
Coaching can be life-changing. Irreversibly. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

So think well before deciding. Once you are clear and courageous enough, go for it. 🤩 🤩 🤩

WHY I DON’T “SELL” YOU MY SERVICES AS A COACH

So…….. I will never “try” to sell you my services as a coach.

I never apply a script, NLP, hypnosis, or any of the usual methods of selling.

I love to coach. I just don’t like to sell.

We will talk or write and then decide.

I’m completely open about it, with no covert techniques.

If we’re a good fit, yes, please. If we don’t fit, no thank you.

How do we know that we fit together?
We find each other interesting, likable, “attractive.”

When we talk about pricing, you may learn three things:

● How valuable do you consider yourself to be?
● What is your relationship to money?
● How valuable do I, your potential coach, value myself and my services?

I only offer high-value coaching.

And, I do not reveal my prices only after I’ve talked to you about this or that in a specific sequence, again following a highly effective script.

The prices are stated quite openly on my website.

So if you are considering working with me, feel free to ask me what you need to know to decide. Email me, call me, whatever is convenient for you.

I always look forward to meeting new, fascinating people.

Interested?